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December 10, 2012

Damnoen Saduak Floating Market: Thailand


Our first day outside of Bangkok was welcomed, as we were both anxious to see the countryside. Getting just beyond the sprawling skyscrapers, you quickly feel like you are seeing the real side of rural Thailand. Our first destination was the floating market, followed by an afternoon at the Rose Gardens. 

Barely outside Bangkok's traffic jams, it becomes apparent that the majority of Thai people are subsistence farmers, and even more so, they have a small plot system. Even though Thailand is accredited for its enormous progress and development, the vast majority of its people are rural, and the country is still characterized as an agricultural society.

One of the better examples of this type of livelihood was along the polluted waterways we maneuvered through to reach the floating markets. Scattered along the banks, between decaying dwellings, were small plots of coconut farmers working beside ten-foot-tall mounds of hollowed-out coconut husks.



The water would be repulsive to most Westerners, as would the living conditions along these remote canals. I am thankful this is not my first or last experience with undeveloped living conditions. Through travel, my parents gave me a world perspective that most people are unfamiliar with. As a professor, I became even more aware of my students’ lack of understanding of the everyday struggles of most people on earth. That might have something to do with my ambition to bring real-world examples of every topic I discuss into the classroom and have a face for my students to associate with every devastation, situation, or livelihood I present.



To say the least, the ride is enlightening about the lives of these small-plot farmers and provides a glimpse at the living conditions of millions of people living along the waterways of Southeast Asia. As we snaked past mildewed huts on our way to the floating markets, our guide told us the story of the original Bangkok, or “Venice of the East.”






Bangkok’s history is deeply connected to the Chao Phraya River and the canals that connect it and bring life to all city corners. Even today, the canals and rivers are very important; I see all types of people, from monks to tourists and businessmen, riding on water taxis to travel all over the city. As I think about what the landscape would have looked like before the towers sprawled out, I can vividly understand why early visitors to Bangkok described it as the “Venice of the East.” The floating markets we explored are reminiscent of how people bought and sold goods and food in Bangkok.




The Damnoen Saduak Floating Market we visited is a very popular tourist destination and, on first appearance, would probably be written down in my book as a “tourist trap.” However, once we stepped down into another small flat boat for about two dollars, we better understood how these markets would have looked and operated before we, the tourists, invaded them. We had fun looking at the boats full of fruits and women making food and drinks right in their laps on these tiny little boats. You will not be disappointed if you look past the multitude of replicated souvenirs and focus on the people.




 It’s a place full of complete chaos, as the women hook your boat and pull you up to theirs to get a better look at what they are selling. As your boat and all the others continue to slide past and over each other, the atmosphere never settles but continues to be full of surprises. So even though it's touristy, if you have a little imagination, you will find the value in seeing a piece of history under the noise and color of a tourist trap.








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October 16, 2012

Bangkok: Golden & Reclining Buddha

Waking up in Bangkok an our second day in Thailand, I was anxious to get out and walk! I love nothing more than walking and exploring a city at my own pace, with no one to follow and no rules to uphold. Unlike the day before, our schedules had a little more leeway, starting with a morning free to do whatever we pleased.

On our drive up to the hotel the day before, we noticed that the urban clutter behind the hotel was full of commotion. This is where the day would start! And where the first words of advice came into play, our taxi driver from the airport to the hotel wasted no time warning us, “Don’t eat food from the street! Our bellies are different than your bellies!” Furthermore, as I asked about the famous street food and vendors, as characteristic to Thailand as elephants, a jewel of insight came forth, “everyone works in Thailand, there is no help from the government, everyone has to work.” There are no food licenses to obtain to be a street vendor in Thailand, which lends to the ever presence of food around every corner, from the mountains to the beaches. 






After seeing entire pigs’ heads, chickens, and fish cooked and served inches from the traffic and winding motorcycles, we had a great time exploring and hiding our shocked faces.  If there is open real estate on any Thai street, you can rest assured that a small mobile cart will be there soon. Quickly, unidentified contents will be fried and then served on rice to people crammed up under the newly erected open-air restaurant with seats crammed in. Walking through the alleys and smelling all the food (and seeing it) is so foreign; seeing people interact with each other and eat on the go and in these small makeshift restaurants was just as culturally enlightening as visiting the temples.

Spirit Houses are another interesting part of the cultural landscape in Thailand. These small shrines are everywhere, from the parking lots of most businesses to the front yards of most homes. This is another form of religious syncretism that plays on both Buddhist and Hindu beliefs.

When one o’clock hit, we were off on our tour to see more of this mega city and its golden temples. By the end of a two-week trip to Thailand, the Buddhas start to merge, but one statue worth visiting, and will certainly be one you remember, is the Reclining Buddha at Wat Po, the largest temple in Bangkok. Stretching 46 meters and covered in gold leaf, the Reclining Buddha is the most impressive statue I have seen on our Thai travels. My favorite part? The feet are decorated with a mother of pear to resemble toe prints (like fingerprints).











The other Buddha statue tied for first place in my book is the famous Golden Buddha at Wat Traimit, renowned as the giant solid gold statue in the world. Its past is one history and mystery buffs will love alike. Monks covered it in plaster and painted it to protect it from being stolen by the Burmese invaders in 1767.  The Burmese destroyed the city of Ayutthaya and left the unimpressive stucco Buddha there amid the ruble. For almost two hundred years, its true identity was masked as it moved from city to city and temple to temple. Eventually, in 1954, it was being moved from its un-glorious position outside when ropes broke, and a glittering gold shine could be seen under the cracks in the plaster. The gold is estimated to be worth around 250 million dollars, just in case you were wondering.



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Once our tour was over, we were dropped off in Chinatown, where the streets seemed to be busier than the rest of Bangkok! We were instantly drawn to the windows, which were full of intriguing things to eat! Walking through Chinatown was one of my favorite parts of experiencing Bangkok. 




It is a unique part of the city with its own flavor. Our stomachs started to rumble and tempt us into eating the tempting street food, but thankfully, it wasn't long until we reached a storefront crammed with crabs, fish, and less recognizable things on ice that looked like "the real deal." The meal was perfect; the Chinese food was by far the best I have ever had. However, the pressing marketing for shark fin soup made the food dull in my mouth. 




the restaurant we ate at, recommended by the 
Princes for their noodles 

Visiting Thailand, I had been preparing to see animals being mistreated (tigers and elephants primarily – I will talk about this extensively later) and menu items that would cause outrage at home. This was the second day of the trip, and here it was. The flashes of sharks being brought up on boats, stripped of their fins, and then thrown back into the ocean to drown were swimming in front of my eyes. This is the reality of traveling and seeing things you are uncomfortable with; it is our responsibility to be educated on what “experiencing the local culture” is and what constitutes participating in destroying ecosystems and species. Being an educated traveler and knowing where to draw the line is crucial.  We should have chosen a different restaurant when I spotted the shark fin soup, and I will always regret the decision to stay. I have learned from this experience and my guilt over it; never again will I stay at a restaurant where the menu contains such cruelty


a picture as we drove by a restaurant in China Town with
shark fins proudly hung in the window 


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October 4, 2012

Thailand Honeymoon: Bangkok



Day 1: Bangkok, Grand Palace, Siam Niramit Dinner & Show

Back on the plane, we were wired, as all the amazing things we saw in Dubai kept our conversation vivid. Consequently, the plane ride from Dubai to Bangkok was not wisely spent on catching a few more zzzs. As soon as we arrived in Bangkok, our friendly travel guide whisked us up, and the laughter was immediate. The people in Thailand are not only friendly, as widely branded, but funny! We laughed so much on this trip and enjoyed the people as much as the places. 


Finally arrived! And can change out o thees cloths we have had on for two days! 





electrical lines tell you a lot about a city, economy, poverty, etc 




Driving through this mega city of more than eight million, it wasn’t long before I saw myself talking about Bangkok in past lectures. There I am referencing the immense stats and impressing that this is a huge city, but now I could see myself in the future with wide eyes spinning around saying “in every direction you look you see Manhattan, it’s like seeing 20 cities inside one city, I have never seen anything like it….” 


We arrived at our hotel around 8 a.m. and had just under an hour to change, SHOWER, and eat breakfast. Mind you, we had spent the last two days on a plane, and I had not had more than seven hours of sleep. Why is it that men are so much better at sleeping on planes? "Tiered" was a major understatement here. 

Our first expedition was to see some of Bangkok’s most prized and historic monuments, primarily the Royal Gran Palace.  This expansive complex of royal residences, temples, and other buildings was home to the royal families from 1782 to 1925. Bangkok was once the capital of the Kingdom of Siam, which later became part of the great Kingdom of Thailand we know today. Some of my favorite things to see here were directly related to the monarchy. The Thai people love their royal family, and from our first taxi cab to our last, I continued to seek out (very carefully) any dislike or less than affectionate references to the monarchy.  This was simply to hear honest feelings from the people who live there since you often find what is told to tourists is not always the exact truth. So, I tend to ask the same questions repeatedly to see what the overall feeling is about national history, conflicts, beliefs, etc.  In this case, the people of Thailand showed instant joy when I asked about the King, Queen, and their daughters. Still, a few gave glimpses into the uneasiness surrounding the Crown Prince and his three marriages, strange requests of his wives, and other less-than-glorified actions that do not reflect the current, beloved King. 

But, back at the Palace, you can see the hall where the royal coronations occur, along with the thrones and other ceremonial aspects.  The Temple of the Emerald Buddha is also very famous, and we highly anticipated it. Yet, we laughed when we saw the little Buddha so high and far away. 


Overall, the Palace is a must for its history and the eclectic architecture built over 200 years under the direction of different kings.  After our four-hour tour, we were back at our hotel two hours before we headed out for a night of fine Thai cuisine and a world-famous show! I was so excited about seeing the Siam Niramit Show. It had been described as a beautiful story of the Kingdom of Siam's history through a Circ De Sole rendition, with over 150 artists and performers and 500 different costumes.  This is right up my alley!

We arrived at the show and had an hour to eat, and oh did we eat, the food in Thailand is incredible whether you are at a four start hotel, tiny hole in the wall, or in the alley behind your hotel (we tried all of these venues).  After eating three plates worth of food and the clock ticking to 7pm, we started to show our exhaustion. As we took our seats, I was immediately taken aback by the amazing show at the same level as the Circ De Soles I had seen, but unfortunately, I did not get the full history lesson I was hoping for. 

As we loaded into the car to return to our hotel, the other two couples from England were going on and on about the show and asking us how we liked it. George and I both said it was "incredible" and "we loved it" and agreed to any specifics they pointed out. When we got back to our hotel, I asked George, “Did you see the goats!” he said, “Ugh, no, I missed that part,” and he said, “Did you see the elephants?” We both lasted about twenty minutes and were sound asleep during the show. I woke up to amazing spectacles of lighting and water flooding the stage, goats being herded around, and other loud moments, but I could not keep my eyes open for more than a few minutes. Apparently, neither could George!  So we both caught each other trying to pull a “it was a great show,” but in reality, we were too tired and would have to return! 

I will never know why that was booked for our first night, but it was still a great memory and the start of an amazing time in Thailand.



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September 16, 2012

Dubai: 8hr Layover


Our honeymoon adventure started with the most appreciated gateway we could have asked for an Emirates flight concierge handing us our tickets, followed by the words, "You have been upgraded," garnished with a faint smile and a wink. 

After leaving our wedding in Graham, Texas, we drove to Fort Worth, about an hour and a half drive, and arrived a few minutes past 2:00 am. The next morning, our flight was not unbearable, with an 11:00 am departure. However, sometime between the moment we got in the car to drive to Forth Worth the night before and the moment we arrived at our hotel, I became violently ill. The next morning, I felt like I was walking through a fog as I carried more tissues than luggage onto the plane.  This sudden aliment, mixed with the exhaustion from the wedding, not to mention the month of labor-intensive preparations that come with building your own barn, all surmounted into feelings of overwhelming love for this woman who just told me I would be able to sleep as we flew over the Atlantic on our way to Dubai.



So ready for take off so I can put this thing in a sleep position! 


I attribute this fortuitous moment to my less than covert tank top reading, “Just Married,” in rhinestones (thanks, Jena); regardless of the “why,” the “what” was incredible. I had already been building up the Emirates flight from rumors of the incredible service and luxurious visions the numerous Emirates billboards around DFW broadcasted. The reality of the laydown chairs and text-book-sized touchscreen control panel, in conjunction with the sea bass and lobster main course, was all that could have been imagined. Of course, this made the trip home two weeks later full of longing for what was behind the velvet red curtains separating the first class from the rest of us. But it is better to have loved than to never have loved at all.

We booked our plane itinerary so that our layover in Dubai would be worth the stop on our way to Bangkok. We had exactly eight hours between touchdown and departure. We spent the intermediate time wisely, and I will replicate this “quick-city-layover” tour again. We booked a Local Tour, in which a local picked us up right at the airport and personally gave us an exemplary history and current viewpoint of the city as we drove to each of the “must-see” sites, such as the Burj Khalifa (tallest building in the world),  Burj Al Arab (Tower of the Arabs hotel designed like a sailboat and often, though not officially, accredited the only 7 star hotel in the world), Palm Islands (artificial archipelago in the shape of a Palm Tree), the largest indoor ski mountain and many more  "largest, tallest, greatest.."  




Of course, some of our favorite spots were those off the “path most traveled,” such as a local market where we had Camel Milk ice cream (a trip favorite).



When our four-hour tour was over, Aarif (our tour guide) dropped us off at The Dubai Mall, where we quickly ate and saw the world's largest degree-viewing glass indoor aquarium. We ended our Dubai experience by rolling our carry-ons outside the mall. We found a spot on the densely packed stairs surrounding the world's largest performing fountain stretching between the Dubai Mall and the Burj Khalifa. The show is quite amazing with the backdrop of the Burj Khalifa, which sometimes sparkles like the Eiffel Tower, but the water hitting as high as fifty stories holds its own without the magnificent backdrop. 









After the show, we followed other tourists and locals to the metro station to return to the airport. One thing you will notice about public transportation in Dubai, which can be said for the city in general, is that "it's clean, very clean." Another characteristic of the metro and city alike is safety. Wherever we went, after taking a moment to wipe away the fog that immediately covered my glasses when we stepped outside the car (heat like you cannot imagine), I was always surprised by how clean everything was. 



While clean and safe do not perfectly correlate with a comparison to Las Vegas, there is one obvious parallel: you need a lot of money to fully enjoy Dubai. Staying long in this incredible new city would be hard without prolific funds. However, an eight-hour layover to hit the most impressive sites (from a distance, since again, it would be incredibly expensive to see from the inside) and see some of the "largest, tallest, greatest.." that are free, like the fountain and the aquarium, and the ski mountain from the outside the glass, provides a great glimpse into what makes this city so unique and why so many gravitate to it. 






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September 6, 2012

MOPAR Wedding Entrance & Getaway

My entire life, I have tried to know enough about cars, particularly MOPAR cars, to impress my dad when the opportunity presented itself. I always wanted to be "in on the fun” when he went to car shows, bought an old rusty shell out of a barn, or finished a project; I wanted to be there and for him to want me to be. The muscle cars he continues to collect and restore have always been a “me and my dad thing."  


When it came time for me to go to my first prom, I never blinked and knew I, not my date, would be driving us there. Of course, my date was happy to let me pick him up in a 1970 440 Pro-street Satellite Sport with open headers that shook the ground and sounded like a thunderstorm. I had to drive barefoot since stilettos didn't give me enough grip! 




When it came to my wedding, I knew we could incorporate a little MOPAR magic to make it unique and something only the Fullerton family could pull off. The wedding was incredible in every way, but what most guests never saw coming and will never see again was my entrance!










While all the guests parked in the field and walked up the path following the arrows to the ceremony, they passed by the barn my family had built, which would soon host the reception. The large doors were closed, and a few “guards” monitored to make sure no one entered. 





Once everyone had taken their seats, the guitarist started to play a sweet song while our mothers, followed by the bridesmaids, walked down the aisle.







Pastor Joe then said, “All rise,” and everyone looked all around the open hilltop to see where I would be coming from. Two of my father’s friends were in the barn, with me and my dad, watching the guests through a crack in the doors. As the guests started to rise, they ceremoniously pulled back the doors.






My dad and I slowly rolled out of the barn in a white 1969 Road Runner and made a circle around the ceremony site.






We pulled up to the back of the ceremony site and walked up the aisle.

Those moments in the barn, with my dad waiting for the cue that it was our turn and driving up to the ceremony as everyone looked on, were so special. This was truly a “me and my dad thing.”




Of course, that could not be the only dramatic element involving a MOPAR machine for a glorious occasion.

As appropriate as driving up to the alter in a white, original, and unquestionably classic Road Runner, it was just as fitting to leave the reception in a black 1970 GTX.  As we peeled away from our families and friends, we both had the perfect end to our wedding festivities, driving down the highway (maybe a few miles over the speed limit) in a true icon of American Muscle.










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